{"id":1703,"date":"2026-01-07T00:59:12","date_gmt":"2026-01-07T00:59:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/growhome.vn\/?p=1703"},"modified":"2026-01-07T00:59:12","modified_gmt":"2026-01-07T00:59:12","slug":"dam-bi-ghet-the-courage-to-be-disliked-cua-ichiro-kishimi-va-fumitake-koga","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/growhome.vn\/?p=1703","title":{"rendered":"D\u00c1M B\u1eca GH\u00c9T (THE COURAGE TO BE DISLIKED)\u00a0C\u1ee6A ICHIRO KISHIMI V\u00c0 FUMITAKE KOGA"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fcbkbttn_buttons_block\" id=\"fcbkbttn_left\"><div class=\"fcbkbttn_button\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/growhome.vn\/wp-content\/plugins\/facebook-button-plugin\/images\/standard-facebook-ico.png\" alt=\"Fb-Button\" \/>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div><div class=\"fcbkbttn_like \"><fb:like href=\"https:\/\/growhome.vn\/?p=1703\" action=\"like\" colorscheme=\"light\" layout=\"standard\"  width=\"225px\" size=\"small\"><\/fb:like><\/div><\/div>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>C\u1ea4U TR\u00daC CU\u1ed0N S\u00c1CH<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c th\u00e0nh 5 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i (5 \u0111\u00eam) gi\u1eefa m\u1ed9t tri\u1ebft gia v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t thanh ni\u00ean ho\u00e0i nghi. M\u1ed7i \u0111\u00eam kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 m\u1ed9t kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc Adler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Contents<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665061\"><strong>\u0110\u00caM TH\u1ee8 NH\u1ea4T: Ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn Ch\u1ea5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/strong>. 2<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665062\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 1: Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n hay ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p?<\/strong>. 2<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665063\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 2: Thuy\u1ebft M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch lu\u1eadn vs Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n lu\u1eadn<\/strong>. 2<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665064\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 3: Ch\u1ea5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i<\/strong> 3<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665065\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 4: Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i<\/strong> 3<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665066\"><strong>\u0110\u00caM TH\u1ee8 HAI: M\u1ecdi phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1eeb c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7<\/strong>. 4<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665067\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 1: C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ef1 ti l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 quan<\/strong>. 4<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665068\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 2: T\u1eeb t\u1ef1 ti \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u1ee9c c\u1ea3m t\u1ef1 ti<\/strong> 4<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665069\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 3: Khoe khoang l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n t\u1ef1 ti<\/strong> 4<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665070\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 4: Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c \u0111ua?<\/strong>. 5<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665071\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 5: Ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o<\/strong>. 5<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665072\"><strong>\u0110\u00caM TH\u1ee8 BA: T\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5<\/strong>. 6<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665073\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 1: Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5<\/strong>. 6<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665074\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 2: V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 con c\u00e1i h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh<\/strong>. 6<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665075\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 3: T\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn<\/strong>. 6<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665076\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 4: Kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn<\/strong>. 7<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665077\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 5: D\u00e1m b\u1ecb gh\u00e9t<\/strong>. 7<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665078\"><strong>\u0110\u00caM TH\u1ee8 T\u01af: C\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p<\/strong>. 8<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665079\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 1: Kh\u00f4ng can thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0o nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/strong>. 8<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665080\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 2: Quan h\u1ec7 ngang b\u1eb1ng<\/strong>. 9<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665081\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 3: Khen ng\u1ee3i v\u00e0 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh<\/strong>. 9<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665082\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 4: Kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 thay v\u00ec khen ng\u1ee3i<\/strong> 9<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665083\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 5: C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p<\/strong>. 10<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665084\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 6: Ba tr\u1ee5 c\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng<\/strong>. 11<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665085\"><strong>\u0110\u00caM TH\u1ee8 N\u0102M: S\u1ed1ng trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/strong> 12<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665086\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 1: Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1eb3ng<\/strong>. 12<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665087\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 2: S\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 \u0111ang khi\u00eau v\u0169<\/strong>. 12<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665088\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 3: Gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3<\/strong>. 13<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665089\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 4: \u1ea8n d\u1ee5 \u0111\u00e8n pin<\/strong>. 13<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665090\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 5: \u00dd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a nghi\u00eam t\u00fac<\/strong>. 14<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665091\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 6: H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/strong>. 14<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665092\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 7: D\u0169ng kh\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/strong>. 15<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665093\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 8: K\u1ebft lu\u1eadn &#8211; D\u0169ng kh\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/strong>. 15<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665094\"><strong>C\u00c1C CH\u1ee6 \u0110\u1ec0 XUY\u00caN SU\u1ed0T<\/strong>.. 16<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665095\"><strong>1. T\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/strong>.. 16<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665096\"><strong>2. T\u1eeb c\u1ea1nh tranh sang h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c<\/strong>. 16<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc218665097\"><strong>3. T\u1eeb t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn sang t\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/strong>. 16<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665061\"><strong>\u0110\u00caM TH\u1ee8 NH\u1ea4T: Ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn Ch\u1ea5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665062\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 1: Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n hay ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p?<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Lu\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Thanh ni\u00ean tin th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng, \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tri\u1ebft gia kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea9n d\u1eadt<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Thanh ni\u00ean \u0111\u01b0a ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p: ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb b\u1eaft n\u1ea1t \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00ean s\u1ee3 ra ngo\u00e0i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tri\u1ebft gia ph\u1ea3n b\u00e1c: kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf nh\u00e0, m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch &#8220;kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ra ngo\u00e0i&#8221; n\u00ean t\u1ea1o ra n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ec7n minh<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n ra ngo\u00e0i, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665063\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 2: Thuy\u1ebft M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch lu\u1eadn vs Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n lu\u1eadn<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch hai h\u1ecdc thuy\u1ebft<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n lu\u1eadn (Freud): Qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch lu\u1eadn (Adler): M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 la m\u1eafng con, sau \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i &#8220;M\u1eb9 m\u1ea5t ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf: Khi \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i reo, b\u00e0 ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c d\u1eebng la v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf: C\u01a1n gi\u1eadn l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 b\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch: Khi\u1ebfn con ph\u1ee5c\uc885 b\u1eb1ng \u00e2m l\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u1edbn<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 y\u00eau ai v\u00ec b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf: Anh ta s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00ean t\u1ea1o ra l\u00fd do &#8220;ch\u1ea5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng&#8221; \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u ai m\u1edbi<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch: B\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u1ecfi nguy c\u01a1 b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665064\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 3: Ch\u1ea5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 hai anh em<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Hai anh em c\u00f9ng l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Anh c\u1ea3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean hung b\u1ea1o: &#8220;V\u00ec b\u1ecb b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh n\u00ean t\u00f4i b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Em trai tr\u1edf n\u00ean hi\u1ec1n l\u00e0nh: &#8220;V\u00ec b\u1ecb b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh n\u00ean t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c v\u1edbi ai&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>K\u1ebft lu\u1eadn: Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a ch\u00fang ta g\u00e1n cho tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ecf m\u1eb7t<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>M\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i s\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ecf m\u1eb7t tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i &#8220;ch\u1ee9ng s\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ecf m\u1eb7t&#8221; khi\u1ebfn c\u00f4 tr\u00e1nh giao ti\u1ebfp<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u00e0 c\u00f4 mu\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh giao ti\u1ebfp n\u00ean bi\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecf m\u1eb7t th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u1edbn<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch: C\u00f3 l\u00fd do ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 (c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665065\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 4: Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>T\u1ea1i sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u00e0 v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh &#8220;kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi d\u0169ng kh\u00ed: d\u0169ng kh\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi than phi\u1ec1n b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>L\u00fd do: B\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh quen thu\u1ed9c an to\u00e0n h\u01a1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac m\u1edbi m\u1ebb<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Thay \u0111\u1ed5i ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft &#8211; \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi d\u0169ng kh\u00ed<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665066\"><strong>\u0110\u00caM TH\u1ee8 HAI: M\u1ecdi phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1eeb c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665067\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 1: C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ef1 ti l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 quan<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u0110\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ef1 ti<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>L\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i so s\u00e1nh ch\u1ee7 quan v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ch\u00ednh n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea5u<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 chi\u1ec1u cao<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao 1m55 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 ti<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh tr\u00ean hoang \u0111\u1ea3o, chi\u1ec1u cao kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ef1 ti ch\u1ec9 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh x\u1ea5u<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 ch\u1ee7 quan d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean vi\u1ec7c so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai kh\u00e1c, kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m &#8220;x\u1ea5u\/\u0111\u1eb9p&#8221; kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665068\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 2: T\u1eeb t\u1ef1 ti \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u1ee9c c\u1ea3m t\u1ef1 ti<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ef1 ti: &#8220;T\u00f4i th\u1ea5p&#8221; (kh\u00e1ch quan)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ph\u1ee9c c\u1ea3m t\u1ef1 ti: &#8220;V\u00ec t\u00f4i th\u1ea5p n\u00ean t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng&#8221; (bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00e1i c\u1edb)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 h\u1ecdc v\u1ea5n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ef1 ti: &#8220;T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ea5p 3&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ph\u1ee9c c\u1ea3m t\u1ef1 ti: &#8220;V\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc n\u00ean t\u00f4i th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf: Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t th\u00e2n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i: &#8220;V\u00ec t\u00f4i sinh ra trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh ngh\u00e8o n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u00e0u c\u00f3&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1i c\u1edb, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eeb ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh ngh\u00e8o kh\u00f3 v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665069\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 3: Khoe khoang l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n t\u1ef1 ti<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch ngh\u1ecbch l\u00fd<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 ti s\u00e2u s\u1eafc th\u01b0\u1eddng khoe khoang<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>H\u1ecd c\u1ed1 che gi\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c ph\u00f4 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay khoe b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi li\u00ean t\u1ee5c nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1eb1ng MBA, ti\u1ebfn s\u0129<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t \u0111ang thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 tin v\u1ec1 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C\u1ea7n b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi khoe c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn xe h\u01a1i \u0111\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n, nh\u00e0 sang<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u0110ang c\u1ed1 b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c thi\u1ebfu gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u00ean trong<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tin r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t m\u1edbi ch\u1ee9ng minh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665070\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 4: Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c \u0111ua?<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 c\u1ea1nh tranh<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi coi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 cu\u1ed9c \u0111ua<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Lu\u00f4n so s\u00e1nh: ai tr\u00ean, ai d\u01b0\u1edbi<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>B\u1ea1n th\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u0103ng ch\u1ee9c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Thay v\u00ec vui, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y thua k\u00e9m<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>L\u00fd do: \u0110ang coi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ee7 c\u1ea1nh tranh<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>H\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a t\u01b0 duy c\u1ea1nh tranh<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi &#8220;th\u1eafng&#8221; b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb th\u00f9<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi &#8220;thua&#8221; b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb \u0111\u00e1ng khinh<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 khi coi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ee7<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665071\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 5: Ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Lu\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec3m trung t\u00e2m<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>N\u1ebfu v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u1ecdi phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o \u0111\u1ec1u xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong ng\u1eef c\u1ea3nh quan h\u1ec7 ng\u01b0\u1eddi-ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>B\u1ea1n b\u1ecb ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch c\u00f4ng khai<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng gi\u1ea3m \u0111i nhi\u1ec1u<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u1ed7i \u0111au kh\u00f4ng t\u1eeb l\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch m\u00e0 t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nghe th\u1ea5y<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>C\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u00e0 v\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb c\u00f4 l\u1eadp kh\u1ecfi c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1edf gi\u1eefa \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng m\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665072\"><strong>\u0110\u00caM TH\u1ee8 BA: T\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665073\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 1: Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u0110\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t r\u00f5: nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a ai th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C\u00e1ch nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft: &#8220;Ai s\u1ebd ch\u1ecbu h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng?&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n: ng\u1ef1a v\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn ng\u1ef1a \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00ean su\u1ed1i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft ng\u1ef1a u\u1ed1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Vi\u1ec7c u\u1ed1ng hay kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a ng\u1ef1a<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665074\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 2: V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 con c\u00e1i h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>T\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu h\u1ecdc b\u00e0i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Cha m\u1eb9 lo l\u1eafng, \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ph\u00e2n t\u00edch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 cha m\u1eb9: t\u1ea1o m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 con: quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 h\u1ecdc hay kh\u00f4ng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>H\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 (\u0111i\u1ec3m k\u00e9m, t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai): thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p theo Adler<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean can thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0o nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a con<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i: &#8220;\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a con. Ba m\u1eb9 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng gi\u00fap n\u1ebfu con c\u1ea7n&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u0110\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 ch\u1ecbu h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng: con kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111i h\u1ecdc<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u00e9p: &#8220;Con ph\u1ea3i \u0111i h\u1ecdc!&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u00ean n\u00f3i: &#8220;Ba m\u1eb9 ngh\u0129 \u0111i h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t cho con. Nh\u01b0ng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a con&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>H\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 con \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665075\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 3: T\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>B\u1ea1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebfp kh\u00f4ng khen<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n: l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a s\u1ebfp: \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a s\u1ebfp<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>B\u1ea1n quan t\u00e2m m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng coi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n: th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd: quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 coi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u00e9p ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u1ea3i th\u00edch m\u00ecnh<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>B\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0a l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1ed1t cho b\u1ea1n b\u00e8<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng nghe v\u00e0 g\u1eb7p r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n: chia s\u1ebb quan \u0111i\u1ec3m<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd: quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 nghe kh\u00f4ng, ch\u1ecbu h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665076\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 4: Kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a Adler<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>&#8220;B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Cha m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n con l\u00e0m b\u00e1c s\u0129<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Con mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u1ebfu con s\u1ed1ng theo k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng cha m\u1eb9, \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a con<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Con c\u1ea7n d\u0169ng kh\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ri\u00eang<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 phong c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng: k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, sinh con \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m theo \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>B\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665077\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 5: D\u00e1m b\u1ecb gh\u00e9t<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u00dd ngh\u0129a trung t\u00e2m<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>T\u1ef1 do l\u00e0 d\u00e1m b\u1ecb gh\u00e9t b\u1edfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>M\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f3<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u01b0a th\u00edch<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u1ebfu s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb gh\u00e9t, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129 v\u1ebd theo phong c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>B\u1ecb ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh l\u00e0 &#8220;qu\u00e1 l\u1ea1&#8221;, &#8220;kh\u00f4ng ai hi\u1ec3u&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u1ebfu v\u1ebd theo \u00fd th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u1ea5t \u0111i c\u00e1 t\u00ednh ri\u00eang<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C\u1ea7n d\u0169ng kh\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 trung th\u00e0nh v\u1edbi t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u0110\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p r\u1ee7 \u0111i u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u, b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>S\u1ee3 b\u1ecb coi l\u00e0 &#8220;kh\u00f4ng h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng&#8221; n\u00ean \u0111i theo<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3: m\u1ea5t th\u1eddi gian, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C\u1ea7n d\u0169ng kh\u00ed n\u00f3i: &#8220;T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111i, c\u1ea3m \u01a1n c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665078\"><strong>\u0110\u00caM TH\u1ee8 T\u01af: C\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665079\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 1: Kh\u00f4ng can thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0o nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch s\u00e2u h\u01a1n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>T\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 v\u00f4 t\u00e2m<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng quy\u1ec1n t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>M\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng li\u00ean t\u1ee5c &#8220;gi\u00fap&#8221; con d\u00e2u n\u1ea5u \u0103n, d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Con d\u00e2u kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb x\u00e2m ph\u1ea1m<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 can thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0o nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u00ean h\u1ecfi: &#8220;Con c\u00f3 c\u1ea7n m\u1eb9 gi\u00fap kh\u00f4ng?&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Cha m\u1eb9 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c khuy\u00ean con c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;Con n\u00ean l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m th\u1ebf kia&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t \u0111ang kh\u00f4ng tin con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 ch\u1ecdn v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665080\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 2: Quan h\u1ec7 ngang b\u1eb1ng<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 vai tr\u00f2<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o cao h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 th\u1ea7y-tr\u00f2<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Th\u1ea7y c\u00f3 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 m\u00f4n h\u1ecdc<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tr\u00f2 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Quan h\u1ec7 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 s\u1ebfp-nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>S\u1ebfp c\u00f3 ch\u1ee9c v\u1ee5 cao h\u01a1n trong c\u00f4ng ty<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m s\u1ebfp th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi c\u1ea3 hai coi nhau ngang b\u1eb1ng v\u1ec1 nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea9m<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665081\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 3: Khen ng\u1ee3i v\u00e0 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>T\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean khen ng\u1ee3i<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Khen ng\u1ee3i \u1ea9n ch\u1ee9a \u00fd \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 t\u1eeb tr\u00ean xu\u1ed1ng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;Con gi\u1ecfi l\u1eafm!&#8221; = &#8220;B\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 con gi\u1ecfi&#8221; (b\u1ed1 \u1edf v\u1ecb tr\u00ed cao h\u01a1n)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 khen ng\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb em<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen &#8220;Gi\u1ecfi qu\u00e1!&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Khi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m n\u1eefa<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 khen ng\u1ee3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>S\u1ebfp khen: &#8220;Anh l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t l\u1eafm!&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 (quan h\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng ngang b\u1eb1ng)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3: &#8220;C\u1ea3m \u01a1n anh \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh d\u1ef1 \u00e1n n\u00e0y&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 v\u1edbi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>&#8220;Con l\u00e0m t\u1ec7 qu\u00e1!&#8221; c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 t\u1eeb tr\u00ean xu\u1ed1ng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>T\u1ea1o ra quan h\u1ec7 d\u1ecdc, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ngang b\u1eb1ng<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665082\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 4: Kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 thay v\u00ec khen ng\u1ee3i<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Khen ng\u1ee3i: \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00edch l\u1ec7: th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m tin<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Thay v\u00ec: &#8220;Con l\u00e0m b\u00e0i ki\u1ec3m tra t\u1ed1t, con th\u00f4ng minh!&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u00f3i: &#8220;Con \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ecdc b\u00e0i. C\u1ea3m \u01a1n con \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>T\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 hay \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Thay v\u00ec: &#8220;Anh gi\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ea5y!&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u00f3i: &#8220;T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t bi\u1ebft \u01a1n s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a anh cho d\u1ef1 \u00e1n n\u00e0y&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 khi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Tr\u1ebb thi k\u00e9m<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i: &#8220;Con k\u00e9m qu\u00e1!&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i: &#8220;Kh\u00f4ng sao, con v\u1eabn gi\u1ecfi!&#8221; (v\u1eabn l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u00f3i: &#8220;B\u1ed1 th\u1ea5y con \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng. Con h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec t\u1eeb l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y?&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665083\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 5: C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u0110\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>L\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u00edch, c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u0110i\u1ec3m quan tr\u1ecdng<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m v\u01b0\u1eddn<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ed3ng hoa tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u00e0<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Th\u1ea5y h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m \u0111i qua, ng\u1eafm hoa, m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>D\u00f9 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i g\u00ec, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m v\u01b0\u1eddn c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u0110\u00e3 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p cho c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u1ed9i tr\u1ee3<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>N\u1ea5u \u0103n cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng &#8220;c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn&#8221; c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nh\u01b0ng m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 thanh ni\u00ean th\u1ea5t nghi\u1ec7p<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Thanh ni\u00ean th\u1ea5t nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tri\u1ebft gia g\u1ee3i \u00fd: &#8220;B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap g\u00ec cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng?&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C\u00f3 th\u1ec3: gi\u00fap cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0, t\u00ecnh nguy\u1ec7n, chia s\u1ebb ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ngay c\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665084\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 6: Ba tr\u1ee5 c\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1. T\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn (Self-acceptance)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n nh\u01b0 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi t\u1ef1 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh (self-affirmation &#8211; t\u1ef1 g\u1ee3i \u00fd m\u00ecnh ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 minh h\u1ecda<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 khuy\u1ebft t\u1eadt ch\u00e2n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>T\u1ef1 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh: &#8220;T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea1y nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng&#8221; (ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>T\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn: &#8220;T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea1y nhanh, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p theo c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2. Tin t\u01b0\u1edfng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c (Trust in others)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Tin t\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi tin c\u1eady (trust c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 tin c\u1eady vs tin t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Tin c\u1eady: &#8220;N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd tin b\u1ea1n&#8221; (c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tin t\u01b0\u1edfng: &#8220;T\u00f4i tin b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t&#8221; (kh\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ngay c\u1ea3 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>B\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn tin t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Cho con ti\u1ec1n ti\u00eau v\u1eb7t<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tin c\u1eady: theo d\u00f5i con ti\u00eau nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tin t\u01b0\u1edfng: tin con s\u1ebd ti\u00eau kh\u00f4n ngoan, kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3. \u0110\u00f3ng g\u00f3p cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c (Contribution to others)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>T\u00ecm c\u00e1ch h\u1eefu \u00edch cho c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i hy sinh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p ba tr\u1ee5 c\u1ed9t<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p theo chu\u1ea9n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>T\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn: &#8220;T\u00f4i tr\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u1ea5y, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng sao&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tin t\u01b0\u1edfng: &#8220;Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 t\u00f4i qua nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u0110\u00f3ng g\u00f3p: &#8220;T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb qua s\u1ef1 t\u1eed t\u1ebf, t\u00e0i n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665085\"><strong>\u0110\u00caM TH\u1ee8 N\u0102M: S\u1ed1ng trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665086\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 1: Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1eb3ng<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n t\u01b0 duy m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi coi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1eb3ng t\u1eeb A (hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i) \u0111\u1ebfn B (th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>&#8220;Khi t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;Khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u0103ng ch\u1ee9c, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;Khi v\u1ec1 h\u01b0u, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i th\u00edch&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3: kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00ec lu\u00f4n nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 leo n\u00fai<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi leo n\u00fai ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec9nh<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>B\u1ecf l\u1ee1 c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1eb9p d\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Khi \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec9nh, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng: &#8220;V\u00e0 r\u1ed3i sao?&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00dd ngh\u0129a th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 n\u1eb1m \u1edf h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665087\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 2: S\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 \u0111ang khi\u00eau v\u0169<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u1ea8n d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 khi\u00eau v\u0169<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Khi\u00eau v\u0169 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00dd ngh\u0129a n\u1eb1m \u1edf ch\u00ednh h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u1ed7i b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2n, m\u1ed7i chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u00c1p d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1ec1 &#8220;\u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00edch&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u00e0 l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng t\u1eebng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u1ed7i kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u0103ng ch\u1ee9c (\u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u00e0 t\u00ecm \u00fd ngh\u0129a trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y s\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665088\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 3: Gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc s\u1ed1ng trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>T\u01b0\u01a1ng lai ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i: &#8220;Khi t\u00f4i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n h\u01a1n, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd du l\u1ecbch&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u0103m n\u00e0y qua n\u0103m kh\u00e1c, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, khi c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n th\u00ec s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>&#8220;Khi t\u00f4i \u00edt b\u1eadn h\u01a1n, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u00edt b\u1eadn<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Khi t\u1ec9nh ra, con c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn, th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>L\u00e0m ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd nh\u1eefng g\u00ec quan tr\u1ecdng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, kh\u00f4ng tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n \u00fd ngh\u0129a<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665089\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 4: \u1ea8n d\u1ee5 \u0111\u00e8n pin<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>T\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111i trong b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u00e8n pin<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u0110\u00e8n ch\u1ec9 chi\u1ebfu s\u00e1ng v\u00e0i m\u00e9t tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t (hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfu xa \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng (t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai xa)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch an to\u00e0n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u00c1p d\u1ee5ng<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp theo<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>L\u00e0m t\u1ed1t t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch chi ti\u1ebft cho 10 n\u0103m t\u1edbi<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>K\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd di\u1ec5n ra nh\u01b0 d\u1ef1 t\u00ednh<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Khi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf kh\u00e1c k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch, h\u1ecd th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, hoang mang<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3: c\u00f3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng chung, linh ho\u1ea1t v\u1edbi t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665090\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 5: \u00dd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a nghi\u00eam t\u00fac<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u0110\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a l\u1ea1i nghi\u00eam t\u00fac<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i lo l\u1eafng, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch chi ti\u1ebft<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>L\u00e0 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 sinh vi\u00ean<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Sinh vi\u00ean lo l\u1eafng: &#8220;N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc chuy\u00ean ng\u00e0nh n\u00e0y, t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai s\u1ebd ra sao?&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Th\u1ef1c ra gh\u00e9t chuy\u00ean ng\u00e0nh nh\u01b0ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u00ec k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>4 n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>L\u1ebd ra n\u00ean ch\u1ecdn theo \u0111am m\u00ea, s\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecdn t\u1eebng n\u0103m h\u1ecdc<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>L\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c gh\u00e9t v\u00ec l\u01b0\u01a1ng cao, ngh\u0129 s\u1ebd ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng v\u00e0i n\u0103m<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>V\u00e0i n\u0103m tr\u00f4i qua trong \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng chuy\u1ec3n ngh\u1ec1, nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00ed ph\u1ea1m th\u1eddi gian<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u1ebfu l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau th\u00edch t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u, d\u00f9 thu nh\u1eadp th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n nh\u01b0ng s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665091\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 6: H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u0110\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a Adler v\u1ec1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i th\u00e0nh t\u00edch, \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb, c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>L\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u1eefu \u00edch cho c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 so s\u00e1nh<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi A: CEO c\u00f4ng ty l\u1edbn, gi\u00e0u c\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, kh\u00f4ng ai th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m m\u00ecnh<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi B: gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean m\u1ea7m non, thu nh\u1eadp khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00ec gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb em ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi B h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n v\u00ec c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 t\u1ef7 ph\u00fa kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t gi\u00e0u nh\u01b0ng lu\u00f4n lo s\u1ee3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u1ec9 quan t\u00e2m ti\u1ec1n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng ai, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>D\u00f9 c\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t nh\u01b0ng thi\u1ebfu c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665092\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 7: D\u0169ng kh\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t vs b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n &#8220;\u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t&#8221; \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 s\u1ed1 1, n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y t\u1ea1o ra \u00e1p l\u1ef1c, phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>D\u0169ng kh\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 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th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt, kh\u00f4ng gi\u00e0u c\u00f3<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nh\u01b0ng ch\u0103m s\u00f3c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t, l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e1ng gi\u1ec1ng t\u1ed1t<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u00fd ngh\u0129a, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n &#8220;\u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665093\"><strong>Ph\u1ea7n 8: K\u1ebft lu\u1eadn &#8211; D\u0169ng kh\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>T\u1ed5ng k\u1ebft c\u00e1c d\u0169ng kh\u00ed c\u1ea7n c\u00f3<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>D\u0169ng kh\u00ed t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i thuy\u1ebft quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh 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class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p cu\u1ed1i<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u1edf hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 d\u0169ng kh\u00ed<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665094\"><strong>C\u00c1C CH\u1ee6 \u0110\u1ec0 XUY\u00caN SU\u1ed0T<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665095\"><strong>1. T\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>B\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 do l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh, qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665096\"><strong>2. T\u1eeb c\u1ea1nh tranh sang h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Thay v\u00ec coi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ee7<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Coi h\u1ecd l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ed9i c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p cho t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea1n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc218665097\"><strong>3. T\u1eeb t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn sang t\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>H\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh thay \u0111\u1ed5i<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Giai \u0111o\u1ea1n 1: S\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Giai \u0111o\u1ea1n 2: T\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Giai \u0111o\u1ea1n 3: T\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Giai \u0111o\u1ea1n 4: H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac t\u1eeb c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u00f3 \u00edch<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch k\u1ebft th\u00fac v\u1edbi th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p: <strong>Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n h\u01a1n ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129. 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