{"id":1721,"date":"2026-01-12T02:22:29","date_gmt":"2026-01-12T02:22:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/growhome.vn\/?p=1721"},"modified":"2026-01-12T02:22:29","modified_gmt":"2026-01-12T02:22:29","slug":"tom-tat-inside-the-criminal-mind-cua-stanton-e-samenow","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/growhome.vn\/?p=1721","title":{"rendered":"T\u00f3m t\u1eaft &#8220;Inside the Criminal Mind&#8221; c\u1ee7a Stanton E. Samenow"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fcbkbttn_buttons_block\" id=\"fcbkbttn_left\"><div class=\"fcbkbttn_button\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/growhome.vn\/wp-content\/plugins\/facebook-button-plugin\/images\/standard-facebook-ico.png\" alt=\"Fb-Button\" \/>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div><div class=\"fcbkbttn_like \"><fb:like href=\"https:\/\/growhome.vn\/?p=1721\" action=\"like\" colorscheme=\"light\" layout=\"standard\"  width=\"225px\" size=\"small\"><\/fb:like><\/div><\/div>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>T\u1ed4NG QUAN CU\u1ed0N S\u00c1CH<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Stanton Samenow, nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc l\u00e2m s\u00e0ng v\u1edbi 40+ n\u0103m l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m, ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 nhi\u1ec1u quan ni\u1ec7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m. Lu\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec3m trung t\u00e2m: <strong>T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u00f3 ch\u1ee7 \u00fd t\u1eeb c\u00e1ch t\u01b0 duy sai l\u1ec7ch.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Contents<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc219102050\"><strong>PH\u1ea6N I: PH\u00c1 V\u1ee0 NH\u1eeeNG QUAN NI\u1ec6M SAI L\u1ea6M<\/strong>&#8230; 3<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc219102051\"><strong>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 1: C\u00e1c l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft sai l\u1ea7m v\u1ec1 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m<\/strong>.. 3<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc219102052\"><strong>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 2: S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m<\/strong>.. 5<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc219102053\"><strong>PH\u1ea6N II: C\u00c1C LO\u1ea0I T\u1ed8I PH\u1ea0M<\/strong>&#8230; 6<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc219102054\"><strong>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 3: T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c<\/strong>. 6<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc219102055\"><strong>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 4: T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/strong>. 8<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc219102056\"><strong>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 5: T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m tr\u1eafng (White Collar Crime)<\/strong>. 9<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc219102057\"><strong>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 6: T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m ma t\u00fay<\/strong>. 10<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc219102058\"><strong>PH\u1ea6N III: T\u00c2M L\u00dd V\u00c0 H\u00c0NH VI<\/strong>. 11<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc219102059\"><strong>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 7: T\u01b0 duy sai l\u1ec7ch (Criminal Thinking Errors)<\/strong>. 11<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc219102060\"><strong>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 8: H\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng<\/strong>. 13<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc219102061\"><strong>PH\u1ea6N IV: \u0110I\u1ec0U TR\u1eca V\u00c0 C\u1ea2I T\u1ea0O<\/strong>.. 16<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc219102062\"><strong>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 9: T\u1ea1i sao \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i<\/strong> 16<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc219102063\"><strong>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 10: Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 &#8211; Thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u01b0 duy<\/strong>. 17<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc219102064\"><strong>PH\u1ea6N V: H\u1ec6 TH\u1ed0NG T\u01af PH\u00c1P<\/strong>. 19<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc219102065\"><strong>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 11: V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1edbi h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng<\/strong>. 19<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc219102066\"><strong>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 12: Gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p<\/strong>. 20<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_Toc219102067\"><strong>K\u1ebeT LU\u1eacN &#8211; TH\u00d4NG \u0110I\u1ec6P CH\u00cdNH<\/strong>.. 21<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc219102050\"><strong>PH\u1ea6N I: PH\u00c1 V\u1ee0 NH\u1eeeNG QUAN NI\u1ec6M SAI L\u1ea6M<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc219102051\"><strong>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 1: C\u00e1c l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft sai l\u1ea7m v\u1ec1 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>L\u00fd thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn b\u1ecb b\u00e1c b\u1ecf<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1. &#8220;Ngh\u00e8o \u0111\u00f3i g\u00e2y t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>B\u00e1c b\u1ecf<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u0110a s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00e1 gi\u1ea3<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>V\u00ed d\u1ee5: Bernie Madoff (l\u1eeba \u0111\u1ea3o 65 t\u1ef7 USD) &#8211; Xu\u1ea5t th\u00e2n gi\u00e0u c\u00f3<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Samenow ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n t\u1ed1t v\u1eabn ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>L\u00fd do: Mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 NGAY, kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c h\u1ee3p ph\u00e1p<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 Tony<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Gia \u0111\u00ecnh trung l\u01b0u, cha m\u1eb9 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C\u00f3 h\u1ecdc b\u1ed5ng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ecdn b\u00e1n ma t\u00fay v\u00ec &#8220;ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n nhanh h\u01a1n&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;T\u1ea1i sao ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c 40 gi\u1edd\/tu\u1ea7n cho \u00edt ti\u1ec1n?&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2. &#8220;M\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea5u g\u00e2y t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>B\u00e1c b\u1ecf<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Hai anh em c\u00f9ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u1ed9t tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m, m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 4 con<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>B\u1ed1 nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u, m\u1eb9 b\u1ecf \u0111i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>3 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u00edch<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>1 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m ngh\u1ec1<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C\u00f9ng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh, kh\u00e1c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Samenow quan \u0111i\u1ec3m<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>M\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u1ef1 do l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3. &#8220;Giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1ea1n x\u1ea5u d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>B\u00e1c b\u1ecf<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i &#8220;b\u1ecb&#8221; b\u1ea1n x\u1ea5u d\u1eabn d\u1ee5<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm b\u1ea1n x\u1ea5u<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 Jake, 14 tu\u1ed5i<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u1ed1t, tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed1t<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ecm nh\u00f3m &#8220;ng\u1ea7u&#8221; \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Cha m\u1eb9: &#8220;Con b\u1ecb b\u1ea1n x\u1ea5u d\u1ee5 d\u1ed7&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf: Jake mu\u1ed1n ph\u1ea5n kh\u00edch, nguy hi\u1ec3m, kh\u00f4ng tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 quy t\u1eafc<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>T\u1ef1 t\u00ecm nh\u00f3m ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>4. &#8220;Thi\u1ebfu t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng g\u00e2y t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>B\u00e1c b\u1ecf<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Nhi\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Con v\u1eabn tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>B\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01a1n th\u00e2n, l\u00e0m 2 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i con<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, hy sinh m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Con trai v\u1eabn tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u00ean c\u01b0\u1edbp<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>L\u00fd do: Con trai mu\u1ed1n &#8220;d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng, nhanh ch\u00f3ng, ph\u1ea5n kh\u00edch&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>5. &#8220;T\u1ef1 ti, thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng g\u00e2y t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>B\u00e1c b\u1ecf ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 t\u1ef1 \u00e1i c\u1ef1c cao<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Coi m\u00ecnh cao h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 QU\u00c1 t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 Marcus<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>B\u1eaft n\u1ea1t, \u0111\u00e1nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>T\u00e2m l\u00fd: &#8220;T\u00f4i th\u00f4ng minh h\u01a1n, m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;T\u00f4i c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 ti, m\u00e0 t\u1ef1 cao t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea1i<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc219102052\"><strong>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 2: S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u0110\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i c\u1ee7a t\u01b0 duy t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1. Mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c (Instant Gratification)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ee3i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Mu\u1ed1n k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 ngay<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng: L\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m, mua nh\u00e0 sau 10 n\u0103m<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m: C\u01b0\u1edbp ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng, c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n ngay h\u00f4m nay<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2. Coi m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n (Victim Stance)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m b\u1ecb b\u1eaft: &#8220;C\u1ea3nh s\u00e1t h\u00e3m h\u1ea1i t\u00f4i&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng cho t\u00f4i c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;N\u1ebfu v\u1ee3 kh\u00f4ng la, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1nh&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd: &#8220;T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 sai&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3. Thi\u1ebfu empathy (Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111au kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ch\u1ec9 quan t\u00e2m b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>C\u01b0\u1edbp c\u1ee5 gi\u00e0: &#8220;T\u00f4i c\u1ea7n ti\u1ec1n&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129: C\u1ee5 gi\u00e0 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Hi\u1ebfp d\u00e2m: &#8220;C\u00f4 ta m\u1eb7c h\u1edf&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129: N\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>4. T\u01b0 duy quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c (Power &amp; Control)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Th\u00edch c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Th\u00edch ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ee3<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 b\u1eaft n\u1ea1t<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1nh v\u00ec t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u00edch c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n ai s\u1ee3 \u0111i h\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u00e0m v\u1eady&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>5. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, gia \u0111\u00ecnh, h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Xin vi\u1ec7c, l\u00e0m 1 tu\u1ea7n, b\u1ecf<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;S\u1ebfp k\u1ef3 th\u1ecb t\u00f4i&#8221; (Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf: \u0110\u1ebfn tr\u1ec5, l\u00e0m t\u1ec7)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C\u00f3 con, kh\u00f4ng nu\u00f4i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;V\u1ee3 kh\u00f4ng cho g\u1eb7p&#8221; (Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf: Kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3 ti\u1ec1n nu\u00f4i con)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>6. D\u1ed1i tr\u00e1 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>D\u1ed1i tr\u00e1 l\u00e0 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u00edch l\u1eeba ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>D\u1ed1i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9: T\u00ean, tu\u1ed5i, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c nhau<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Th\u00edch c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c &#8220;t\u00f4i th\u00f4ng minh h\u01a1n, l\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecd&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc219102053\"><strong>PH\u1ea6N II: C\u00c1C LO\u1ea0I T\u1ed8I PH\u1ea0M<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc219102054\"><strong>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 3: T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u0110\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i &#8220;m\u1ea5t ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129: Gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec &#8220;n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn m\u1ea5t ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf: C\u00f3 t\u00ednh to\u00e1n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u0110\u00e1nh v\u1ee3 trong nh\u00e0 (kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1nh ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng (c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf: Ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, ch\u1ecdn th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ba \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c ch\u00ednh<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1. Quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ee3, ph\u1ee5c t\uc885<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 b\u0103ng \u0111\u1ea3ng<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Thanh ni\u00ean 16 tu\u1ed5i b\u1eafn ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec th\u00f9 h\u1eadn<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>V\u00ec mu\u1ed1n n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng trong b\u0103ng \u0111\u1ea3ng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;Gi\u1edd m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u00f9a&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2. Ph\u1ea5n kh\u00edch<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Th\u00edch c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c m\u1ea1nh<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng &#8220;nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Nh\u00f3m thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean \u0111\u00e1nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 gia c\u01b0<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u01b0\u1edbp (ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 gia c\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;Cho vui th\u00f4i&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;Cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u00f3 g\u00ec hay h\u01a1n&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3. Lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Gi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 che gi\u1ea5u t\u1ed9i kh\u00e1c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ho\u1eb7c lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf &#8220;phi\u1ec1n to\u00e1i&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>C\u01b0\u1edbp ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng, gi\u1ebft nh\u00e2n ch\u1ee9ng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i gh\u00e9t nh\u00e2n ch\u1ee9ng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 &#8220;tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i c\u1ea7n lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>B\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i &#8220;stress&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i: &#8220;T\u00f4i stress c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1nh s\u1ebfp (ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u00e2y stress th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00e1nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u1ebfu h\u01a1n, ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>T\u01b0 duy<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>&#8220;V\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;T\u00f4i c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Coi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 Jerry<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u0110\u00e1nh v\u1ee3 10 n\u0103m<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;C\u00f4 ta l\u00e0m t\u00f4i t\u1ee9c&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Samenow h\u1ecfi: &#8220;S\u1ebfp l\u00e0m anh t\u1ee9c, anh c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1nh kh\u00f4ng?&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;Kh\u00f4ng, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd b\u1ecb sa th\u1ea3i&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Samenow: &#8220;V\u1eady anh ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Anh ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u00e1nh v\u1ee3 v\u00ec bi\u1ebft c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecf&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc219102055\"><strong>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 4: T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 quan ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i &#8220;b\u1ec7nh ho\u1ea1n&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129: Hi\u1ebfp d\u00e2m v\u00ec &#8220;b\u1ec7nh t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Samenow: \u0110a s\u1ed1 bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 \u0111ang l\u00e0m g\u00ec, ch\u1ecdn l\u00e0m<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i &#8220;kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ham mu\u1ed1n&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u2192 S\u1ebd hi\u1ebfp b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fac n\u00e0o<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf: Ch\u1ecdn n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n, th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m, \u0111\u1ecba \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>T\u01b0 duy t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1. Quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>&#8220;T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ea5y&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Coi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>&#8220;C\u00f4 ta m\u1eb7c sexy, r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng mu\u1ed1n&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Logic sai: M\u1eb7c \u0111\u1eb9p kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd sex)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2. Ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>&#8220;Kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i ai&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;Tr\u1ebb em th\u00edch th\u00f4i&#8221; (V\u1edbi \u1ea5u d\u00e2m)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 pedophile<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>&#8220;T\u00f4i y\u00eau tr\u1ebb em&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra (ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m) \u0111ang ph\u00e1 h\u1ee7y cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi tr\u1ebb<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Samenow: &#8220;Anh &#8216;y\u00eau&#8217; nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch s\u00f3i y\u00eau c\u1eebu&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3. L\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed3ng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>T\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm, theo d\u00f5i, chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>K\u1ebb hi\u1ebfp d\u00e2m quan s\u00e1t n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n nhi\u1ec1u tu\u1ea7n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Bi\u1ebft l\u1ecbch tr\u00ecnh, khi n\u00e0o \u1edf nh\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5, l\u1ed1i tho\u00e1t<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf: Ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i &#8220;m\u1ea5t ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u0110i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>R\u1ea5t kh\u00f3<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>T\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 t\u00e1i ph\u1ea1m cao<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C\u1ea7n gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng &#8220;ch\u1eefa kh\u1ecfi&#8221; \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc219102056\"><strong>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 5: T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m tr\u1eafng (White Collar Crime)<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u0110\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i &#8220;kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m tr\u1eafng th\u01b0\u1eddng bi\u1ec7n minh: &#8220;Bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u c\u00f4ng ty&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf: C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn h\u1ee3p ph\u00e1p, ch\u1ecdn ph\u1ea1m ph\u00e1p v\u00ec d\u1ec5 h\u01a1n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>T\u1ef1 \u00e1i c\u1ef1c cao<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Tin m\u00ecnh th\u00f4ng minh h\u01a1n, x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng h\u01a1n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Lu\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho m\u00ecnh<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 Bernie Madoff<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>L\u1eeba \u0111\u1ea3o Ponzi 65 t\u1ef7 USD<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ph\u00e1 s\u1ea3n h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>T\u1ef1 \u00e1i: &#8220;T\u00f4i thi\u00ean t\u00e0i, t\u00f4i ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;H\u1ecd ham ti\u1ec1n, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i khi tin t\u00f4i&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 gian l\u1eadn thu\u1ebf<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Doanh nh\u00e2n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;T\u00f4i t\u1ea1o vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;Ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee7 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi ti\u1ec1n thu\u1ebf c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u1eeba v\u00ec &#8220;t\u00f4i \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u0110\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m chung<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1. H\u1ee3p l\u00fd h\u00f3a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>&#8220;M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0m v\u1eady&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 m\u01b0\u1ee3n, s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;C\u00f4ng ty kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5t g\u00ec&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2. Khinh th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>&#8220;H\u1ecd gi\u00e0u c\u00f3, m\u1ea5t ch\u00fat kh\u00f4ng sao&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;H\u1ecd ngu n\u00ean b\u1ecb l\u1eeba&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3. Th\u00edch th\u00fa v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c l\u1eeba<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ti\u1ec1n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u00e0 v\u00ec c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c &#8220;t\u00f4i th\u00f4ng minh h\u01a1n h\u1ecd&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc219102057\"><strong>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 6: T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m ma t\u00fay<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh b\u1ec7nh ho\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Quan ni\u1ec7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>&#8220;Nghi\u1ec7n l\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh, kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;Ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i v\u00ec ph\u1ea3i ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n mua ma t\u00fay&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Samenow b\u00e1c b\u1ecf<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Nghi\u1ec7n l\u00e0 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng ma t\u00fay \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e1m ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Tr\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i: Nghi\u1ec7n \u2192 Ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i (\u0111\u1ec3 mua ma t\u00fay)<\/strong> <strong>M\u00e0 l\u00e0: L\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m \u2192 D\u00f9ng ma t\u00fay (\u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ea5n kh\u00edch\/d\u00e1m l\u00e0m h\u01a1n)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 Tyrone<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>15 tu\u1ed5i, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i (c\u01b0\u1edbp, \u0111\u00e1nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>17 tu\u1ed5i, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u d\u00f9ng cocaine<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>L\u00fd do: &#8220;Khi d\u00f9ng, t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 chi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1i, d\u00e1m l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 &#8220;qu\u00ean \u0111au kh\u1ed5&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u0103ng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ma t\u00fay nh\u01b0 &#8220;nhi\u00ean li\u1ec7u&#8221; cho l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Gi\u1ea3m \u1ee9c ch\u1ebf<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>T\u0103ng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c &#8220;t\u00f4i l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>H\u1ee3p l\u00fd h\u00f3a h\u00e0nh vi: &#8220;T\u00f4i \u0111ang ph\u00ea, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u0110i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Cai nghi\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i T\u01af DUY t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 cai nghi\u1ec7n: S\u1ebd ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ph\u1ea5n kh\u00edch kh\u00e1c<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc219102058\"><strong>PH\u1ea6N III: T\u00c2M L\u00dd V\u00c0 H\u00c0NH VI<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc219102059\"><strong>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 7: T\u01b0 duy sai l\u1ec7ch (Criminal Thinking Errors)<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>52 l\u1ed7i t\u01b0 duy c\u1ee7a t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m<\/strong> (Samenow li\u1ec7t k\u00ea chi ti\u1ebft)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Nh\u00f3m 1: T\u01b0 duy v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1. T\u1ef1 coi l\u00e0 s\u1ed1 1 (I&#8217;m Number One)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>V\u0169 tr\u1ee5 quay quanh t\u00f4i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1eadu xe \u2192 \u0110\u1eadu ch\u1ed7 ng\u01b0\u1eddi khuy\u1ebft t\u1eadt<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 5 ph\u00fat th\u00f4i, kh\u00f4ng sao&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 ng\u01b0\u1eddi khuy\u1ebft t\u1eadt c\u1ea7n ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u00f3<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2. T\u1ef1 \u00e1i c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed9 (Massive Pride)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Coi m\u00ecnh cao h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 &#8220;ngu&#8221;, &#8220;y\u1ebfu&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu l\u1ed7i (Zero State)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh sai<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u2192 L\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Thi tr\u01b0\u1ee3t: &#8220;Gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean k\u1ef3 th\u1ecb&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>B\u1ecb sa th\u1ea3i: &#8220;S\u1ebfp ghen t\u1ecb&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>V\u1ee3 b\u1ecf: &#8220;C\u00f4 ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Nh\u00f3m 2: T\u01b0 duy v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>4. Coi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt (Others as Objects)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 m\u00ecnh<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>5. Thi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m (Lack of Empathy)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111au kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n k\u1ebb gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Samenow: &#8220;Anh ngh\u0129 g\u00ec v\u1ec1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n?&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;Kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 g\u00ec c\u1ea3. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;H\u1ecd ch\u1ebft th\u00ec t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m sao&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>6. Chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu (Ownership)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Coi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c (v\u1ee3, con, b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i) nh\u01b0 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;C\u00f4 ta l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec th\u00ec l\u00e0m&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Nh\u00f3m 3: T\u01b0 duy v\u1ec1 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>7. S\u1ee3 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c (Fear of Fear)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>S\u1ee3 ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>S\u1ee3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i n\u1ebfu c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch ngh\u1ecbch l\u00fd<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>&#8220;N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng m\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u2192 Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u1ed7i t\u00f4i&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng m\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u2192 T\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 k\u00e9m&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u00ean ch\u1ecdn kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>8. T\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m (Irresponsibility)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>B\u1ecf vi\u1ec7c gi\u1eefa ch\u1eebng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh cam k\u1ebft<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y ch\u00e1n n\u00ean th\u00f4i&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>9. Quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ee9c th\u1eddi (Moment-to-Moment Decision)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch d\u00e0i h\u1ea1n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh theo c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u1ee9c th\u1eddi<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>9h s\u00e1ng: &#8220;T\u00f4i s\u1ebd ki\u1ebfm vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m, l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>10h s\u00e1ng: B\u1ea1n r\u1ee7 \u0111i ch\u01a1i, \u0111i ngay<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Qu\u00ean h\u1eb3n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh 9h<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Nh\u00f3m 4: T\u01b0 duy v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>10. Shut off (T\u1eaft l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>C\u00f3 l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m nh\u01b0ng T\u1eaeT khi c\u1ea7n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nh\u01b0 c\u00f4ng t\u1eafc \u0111i\u1ec7n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>V\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t, lo l\u1eafng, chu \u0111\u00e1o<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Khi c\u01b0\u1edbp: T\u1eaft h\u1ebft c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Sau khi c\u01b0\u1edbp: B\u1eadt l\u1ea1i, v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi con nh\u01b0 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>11. T\u01b0 duy song song (Fragmentation)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Hai t\u01b0 duy t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i song song<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;T\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t&#8221; + &#8220;T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>M\u1ee5c s\u01b0 c\u01b0\u1ee1ng hi\u1ebfp tr\u1ebb em<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>V\u1eabn tin m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Hai h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean k\u1ebft trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc219102060\"><strong>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 8: H\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>D\u1ed1i tr\u00e1 (Lying)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>T\u1ea7n su\u1ea5t<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>D\u1ed1i tr\u00e1 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c, v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>K\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 khi kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>H\u1ecfi: &#8220;Anh \u0103n s\u00e1ng ch\u01b0a?&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u0110\u00e1p: &#8220;R\u1ed3i&#8221; (Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf ch\u01b0a)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ed1i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nh\u01b0ng d\u1ed1i ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>L\u00fd do<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Th\u00f3i quen<\/strong>: D\u1ed1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c<\/strong>: L\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u2192 C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u00f4ng minh h\u01a1n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Th\u1eed th\u00e1ch<\/strong>: Xem c\u00f3 l\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>C\u00e1c ki\u1ec3u d\u1ed1i<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>D\u1ed1i tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp<\/strong>: N\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Gi\u1ea5u di\u1ebfm<\/strong>: Kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>\u0110\u00e1nh l\u1ea1c h\u01b0\u1edbng<\/strong>: Tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00e1c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>D\u1ed1i b\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/strong>: Gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd, di\u1ec5n k\u1ecbch<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 Marcus \u1edf t\u00f2a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Th\u1ec1 tr\u00ean Kinh Th\u00e1nh s\u1ebd n\u00f3i s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ph\u00fat sau d\u1ed1i ngay<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Samenow: &#8220;Anh v\u1eeba th\u1ec1 m\u00e0&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;V\u00e2ng, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Logic: Th\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng khi b\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i cho m\u00ecnh)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Thao t\u00fang (Manipulation)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u0110\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>K\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1. Ch\u01a1i n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n (Playing Victim)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>&#8220;Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i kh\u1ed5 qu\u00e1&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u1ea3m th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u2192 Gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m v\u1edbi lu\u1eadt s\u01b0: &#8220;T\u00f4i b\u1ecb \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i v\u00ec ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 tin \u2192 B\u00e0o ch\u1eefa nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>V\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8: &#8220;T\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t, b\u1ecb h\u00e3m h\u1ea1i&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2. Charm (Quy\u1ebfn r\u0169)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>D\u1ec5 m\u1ebfn, h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc, quan t\u00e2m<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c tin t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Sau \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 Ted Bundy<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>K\u1ebb gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0ng lo\u1ea1t<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb9p, l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1, d\u1ec5 m\u1ebfn<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, \u0111i theo<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>R\u1ed3i b\u1ecb gi\u1ebft<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3. G\u00e2y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i (Guilt Tripping)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>R\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f2i b\u1ed3i th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 con v\u1edbi m\u1eb9<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Con nghi\u1ec7n ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u1eb9 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i cho ti\u1ec1n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Con: &#8220;M\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau con. M\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n con ch\u1ebft \u00e0?&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i \u2192 Cho ti\u1ec1n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Con d\u00f9ng ti\u1ec1n mua ma t\u00fay<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t (Control)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Nhu c\u1ea7u ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ph\u1ea3i ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu n\u1ed5i khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u1ee3 m\u1eb7c g\u00ec, g\u1eb7p ai, \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u1ebfu v\u1ee3 kh\u00f4ng nghe \u2192 B\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i &#8220;y\u00eau qu\u00e1 n\u00ean ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u00e0 coi v\u1ee3 nh\u01b0 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u00f3m l\u00e0m g\u00ec<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe theo \u2192 N\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecf \u0111i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;L\u00e0m theo t\u00f4i ho\u1eb7c t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u01a1i n\u1eefa&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc219102061\"><strong>PH\u1ea6N IV: \u0110I\u1ec0U TR\u1eca V\u00c0 C\u1ea2I T\u1ea0O<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc219102062\"><strong>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 9: T\u1ea1i sao \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>C\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1. Li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng (Psychoanalysis)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh sai<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m c\u00f3 &#8220;v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd&#8221; c\u1ea7n ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Hi\u1ec3u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n \u2192 Thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00e0nh vi<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>T\u00ecm l\u00fd do bi\u1ec7n minh h\u00e0nh vi<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;V\u00ec t\u00f4i b\u1ecb b\u1ecf r\u01a1i l\u00fac nh\u1ecf n\u00ean t\u00f4i ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i&#8221; \u2192 Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Samenow ban \u0111\u1ea7u d\u00f9ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m &#8220;h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c&#8221; t\u1ed1t<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u00f3i v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nh\u01b0ng ra kh\u1ecfi ph\u00f2ng li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p \u2192 V\u1eabn ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i g\u00ec<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng ki\u1ebfm s\u1ed1ng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>D\u1ea1y ngh\u1ec1 \u2192 C\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m \u2192 Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m c\u00f3 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng t\u1ed1t<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ecdn kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c h\u1ee3p ph\u00e1p v\u00ec &#8220;ch\u00e1n&#8221;, &#8220;l\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ea5p&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>D\u1ea1y s\u1eeda xe cho t\u00f9 nh\u00e2n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ra t\u00f9, c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m s\u1eeda xe<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>L\u00e0m 2 tu\u1ea7n, b\u1ecf<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>&#8220;L\u00e0m c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y m\u1ec7t, l\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00edt&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Quay l\u1ea1i bu\u00f4n ma t\u00fay: &#8220;D\u1ec5 h\u01a1n, nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n h\u01a1n&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3. Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh 12 b\u01b0\u1edbc (AA, NA &#8211; Cho nghi\u1ec7n)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>H\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n cai<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nh\u01b0ng t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m th\u01b0\u1eddng tham gia v\u00ec \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c (t\u00f2a \u00e1n)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd tham gia, kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u01b0 duy<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>L\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m &#8220;b\u1ec7nh&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>&#8220;Nghi\u1ec7n l\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u2192 Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Samenow: Nghi\u1ec7n l\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn, c\u1ea7n ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>4. Li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p nh\u00f3m truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb nhau<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7n minh t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>H\u1ecdc k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i m\u1edbi<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Nh\u00f3m tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u trong t\u00f9<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A k\u1ec3: &#8220;T\u00f4i tr\u1ed9m xe th\u1ebf n\u00e0y&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>B h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt m\u1edbi<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Thay v\u00ec thay \u0111\u1ed5i, h\u1ecdc ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc219102063\"><strong>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 10: Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 &#8211; Thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u01b0 duy<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u1ee7a Samenow<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1. \u0110\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn bi\u1ec7n minh<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn: &#8220;T\u00f4i ch\u1ecdn ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>K\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m: &#8220;T\u00f4i ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i v\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh ngh\u00e8o&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Samenow: &#8220;Anh em anh c\u00f9ng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i. T\u1ea1i sao?&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh b\u1eb1ng bi\u1ec7n minh<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2. Ghi nh\u1eadt k\u00fd t\u01b0 duy<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y ghi l\u1ea1i m\u1ecdi suy ngh\u0129<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t suy ngh\u0129 t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>&#8220;9h s\u00e1ng: Th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 v\u00ed tr\u00ean b\u00e0n, ngh\u0129 l\u1ea5y&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;2h chi\u1ec1u: B\u1ea1n k\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ec1n d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng, t\u00f4i ghen t\u1ecb, ngh\u0129 t\u00f4i x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng h\u01a1n&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;8h t\u1ed1i: V\u1ee3 la, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f4 ta im&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft pattern t\u01b0 duy t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3. Ki\u1ec3m tra m\u1ed7i suy ngh\u0129<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>M\u1ed7i suy ngh\u0129 t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m \u2192 Ph\u1ea3i thay th\u1ebf b\u1eb1ng suy ngh\u0129 c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Suy ngh\u0129 c\u0169: &#8220;S\u1ebfp la t\u00f4i, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1nh anh ta&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ki\u1ec3m tra: &#8220;Anh c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e1nh kh\u00f4ng?&#8221; &#8211; &#8220;Kh\u00f4ng&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;H\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 n\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e1nh?&#8221; &#8211; &#8220;M\u1ea5t vi\u1ec7c, v\u00e0o t\u00f9&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;Anh mu\u1ed1n h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng?&#8221; &#8211; &#8220;Kh\u00f4ng&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Suy ngh\u0129 m\u1edbi: &#8220;S\u1ebfp la, t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ee9c. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i s\u1ebd b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>4. B\u00e1o c\u00e1o h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y b\u00e1o c\u00e1o v\u1edbi counselor<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u1ecdi suy ngh\u0129, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Accountability (ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u1ed1i v\u00ec ph\u1ea3i b\u00e1o c\u00e1o chi ti\u1ebft<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>5. Th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh h\u00e0nh vi c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i, ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u0110i l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh cam k\u1ebft<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Trung th\u1ef1c<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Tu\u1ea7n 1: \u0110i l\u00e0m \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tu\u1ea7n 2: Ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c giao<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tu\u1ea7n 3: N\u00f3i s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt trong m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>T\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng pattern m\u1edbi<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>T\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p Samenow: ~40% kh\u00f4ng t\u00e1i ph\u1ea1m<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Cao h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng (~10-20%)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u0110i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh k\u00e9o d\u00e0i (\u00edt nh\u1ea5t 1-2 n\u0103m)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng khoan nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi bi\u1ec7n minh<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>N\u1ebfu t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m ch\u1ec9 gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u1ebfu ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh ng\u1eafn (v\u00e0i th\u00e1ng)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u1ebfu counselor tin v\u00e0o bi\u1ec7n minh<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng khi vi ph\u1ea1m<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc219102064\"><strong>PH\u1ea6N V: H\u1ec6 TH\u1ed0NG T\u01af PH\u00c1P<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc219102065\"><strong>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 11: V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1edbi h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1. \u00c1n ph\u1ea1t qu\u00e1 nh\u1eb9<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c &#8220;c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u1ee9 hai&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Qu\u1ea3n ch\u1ebf, ph\u1ea1t c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng thay v\u00ec t\u00f9<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m hi\u1ec3u: &#8220;Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Thanh ni\u00ean 18 tu\u1ed5i c\u01b0\u1edbp l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u1ea3n ch\u1ebf 1 n\u0103m<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ngh\u0129: &#8220;D\u1ec5 th\u1ebf \u00e0, l\u1ea7n sau c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>6 th\u00e1ng sau: Ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i l\u1ea1i, nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Samenow quan \u0111i\u1ec3m<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>C\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u1ee9 hai n\u00ean d\u00e0nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0103n n\u0103n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd k\u1ef9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi cho c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>V\u1edbi t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m c\u00f3 t\u01b0 duy sai l\u1ec7ch n\u1eb7ng: \u00c1n ph\u1ea1t nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2. Rehabilitation (C\u1ea3i t\u1ea1o) k\u00e9m hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Th\u1ef1c tr\u1ea1ng trong t\u00f9<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh c\u1ea3i t\u1ea1o y\u1ebfu<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd tham gia \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m \u00e1n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u01b0 duy th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Tham gia l\u1edbp &#8220;Qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ngoan ngo\u00e3n trong l\u1edbp<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ra kh\u1ecfi l\u1edbp: &#8220;M\u1ea5y c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n, kh\u00f4ng \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3. T\u00e1i ph\u1ea1m cao<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>70-80% t\u00f9 nh\u00e2n t\u00e1i ph\u1ea1m trong 5 n\u0103m<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>H\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong vi\u1ec7c thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u01b0 duy<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ra t\u00f9 quay l\u1ea1i m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u0169<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 d\u00e0i h\u1ea1n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc219102066\"><strong>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 12: Gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1. \u0110\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd s\u00e2u<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi tuy\u00ean \u00e1n, \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 pattern t\u01b0 duy<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ph\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i:\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i (1 l\u1ea7n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m ngh\u1ec1 (t\u01b0 duy sai l\u1ec7ch n\u1eb7ng, c\u1ea7n can thi\u1ec7p m\u1ea1nh)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2. C\u1ea3i t\u1ea1o b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c v\u00e0 chuy\u00ean s\u00e2u<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u00f9y ch\u1ecdn<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u01b0 duy b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>K\u00e9o d\u00e0i, gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t ch\u1eb7t<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3. H\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 nhanh ch\u00f3ng<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i \u2192 H\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ngay<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng k\u00e9o d\u00e0i 2-3 n\u0103m m\u1edbi x\u1eed<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m c\u1ea7n th\u1ea5y: H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u2192 H\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>4. Gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t l\u00e2u d\u00e0i sau ra t\u00f9<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 qu\u1ea3n ch\u1ebf 1-2 n\u0103m<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t 5-10 n\u0103m<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ki\u1ec3m tra \u0111\u1ecbnh k\u1ef3 t\u01b0 duy, h\u00e0nh vi<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>5. Zero Tolerance v\u1edbi vi ph\u1ea1m<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Vi ph\u1ea1m nh\u1ecf (n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, b\u1ecf h\u1eb9n) \u2192 H\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ngay<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00edch l\u0169y th\u00e0nh vi ph\u1ea1m l\u1edbn<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m ra t\u00f9<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>B\u00e1o c\u00e1o h\u00e0ng tu\u1ea7n v\u1edbi officer<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ki\u1ec3m tra ma t\u00fay ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ghi nh\u1eadt k\u00fd t\u01b0 duy h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>B\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 suy ngh\u0129\/h\u00e0nh vi t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m \u2192 C\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o ngay<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Vi ph\u1ea1m l\u1ea7n 2 \u2192 Quay l\u1ea1i t\u00f9<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3: T\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 t\u00e1i ph\u1ea1m gi\u1ea3m 50%<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a id=\"_Toc219102067\"><strong>K\u1ebeT LU\u1eacN &#8211; TH\u00d4NG \u0110I\u1ec6P CH\u00cdNH<\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a Samenow<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1. T\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m l\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1ec7nh ho\u1eb7c gene<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>L\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u00f3 ch\u1ee7 \u00fd<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2. T\u01b0 duy quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00e0nh vi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00e0nh vi m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u01b0 duy \u2192 Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch ngh\u0129 t\u1eeb g\u1ed1c<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3. Thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u01b0ng r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>C\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1eeb t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C\u1ea7n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh chuy\u00ean s\u00e2u, l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C\u1ea7n h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>4. X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ng\u1eebng bi\u1ec7n minh cho t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ng\u1eebng coi h\u1ecd l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Y\u00eau c\u1ea7u tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>5. 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